Milestones · 5–13 years

Skills that carry into class

Milestones don't stop at five. Speech sounds should be fully clear, and language now underpins reading, writing and friendships.

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A young woman kneeling beside a young boy wearing a red sports jersey, engaging in conversation in an indoor classroom setting

Age 5 to 13

What most school-age kids can do

By school age, milestones stop being about firsts and start being about mastery, clear speech, confident reading, and the language behind friendships.

Speech Therapy

How children understand, use, and share language with others

5–13 years

Says nearly all speech sounds correctly and is easy to understand
Talks smoothly, without often repeating sounds or getting stuck on words
Follows classroom directions and understands lessons
Tells a story or explains an event in order, with detail
Uses language to make and keep friends
Reads with comprehension at grade level
Gets thoughts onto paper in a structured way
Uses language to negotiate, compromise and repair a conversation

About Speech Therapy

Occupational Therapy

Fine motor, sensory, self-care and play skills for everyday life

5–6 years

Dynamic tripod grasp

thumb, index and middle fingers with ring and pinky curled into palm; movement comes from the fingertips

Throws at a target 5 feet away and hits it fairly consistently

Printing letters and numbers legibly

Dresses and puts on shoes/socks independently

6+ years

Writes legibly and keeps up with handwriting in class
Uses scissors, glue, buttons, zippers and utensils smoothly
Manages dressing, hygiene and daily routines independently
Organizes homework and follows multi-step directions
Starts a task, sticks with it, and asks for help when stuck
Handles changes in routine without falling apart

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Physical Therapy

Big movement, strength, balance and coordination

5+ years

Rides a two-wheel bike
Balances on one foot with eyes closed for several seconds
Kicks a ball with aim and control
Keeps up with peers in PE, sports and playground games
Runs and plays for a sustained period without tiring quickly

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Feeding Therapy

Chewing, swallowing, textures and calmer mealtimes

5–13 years

Chews and swallows safely and efficiently
Manages a school lunch and a packed lunch away from home
Handles mixed and unfamiliar foods at a friend's house or a restaurant
Takes bites and closes lips around the fork or spoon
Drinks enough through the day without reminders
Mealtimes are not a battleground for the family

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Orofacial Myofunctional Therapy

Where the tongue, lips and jaw rest and how they move

4–6 years

Tongue rests on the roof of the mouth, not against or between the teeth
Lips are gently closed at rest, without effort
Breathing happens through the nose, including during sleep
Thumb, finger and pacifier habits have stopped
Swallowing happens without the tongue pushing forward against the front teeth
Speech sounds like "s," "z" and "th" are coming through clearly
Chewing happens with the lips closed

7–13 years

Nasal breathing continues at rest, during sleep and during focused activities
Tongue stays on the roof of the mouth while at rest and through the swallow
Lips stay closed at rest, even during screen time and reading
Sleep is restful — no snoring, no waking with a dry mouth
Chewing and swallowing are efficient and quiet
Orthodontic work is not being undermined by tongue or lip habits

About Orofacial Myofunctional Therapy

Speech sounds have a deadline

Most sounds are clear by 5 or 6, but a few (r, s, th, l) are expected to settle by about 7 to 8. Past that window, a sound that “might fix itself” usually won't on its own, and it gets harder to change once the habit is set.

“Doing fine” can still mean struggling

Plenty of children hold it together all day at school and fall apart at home. If homework takes three times as long as it should, or reading is a fight every night, that's worth looking into, even when report cards look okay.

These are general guidelines, not a diagnosis. Kids learn on a wide range of timelines: a child who is a little behind on one skill is often right on track.

Speech sound guidance is based on Crowe & McLeod (2020), American Journal of Speech-Language Pathology. Other milestones reflect the experience of our speech, occupational and physical therapists.

Worth a closer look

Trusting your gut is never overreacting.

Between ages 5 and 13, these are the patterns our therapists would want to hear about. None of them mean something is wrong. They just mean it's a good time to ask.

Getting in touch is exactly that: a conversation about what you're noticing. You don't need a referral to talk have it.

If any of this sounds familiar, ask us about it.

Signs to mention at 5–13 years

Speech sounds still unclear past age 7–8
Reading or writing well below grade level
Trouble following multi-step directions or organizing work
Difficulty with peer relationships or social language
Stuttering that persists or causes avoidance

Who helps at this age

Speech therapy Orofacial myofunctional therapy Occupational therapy

Is your child a different age?

Milestones at every age

Infants

0–12 months

First sounds, first rolls

View milestones

Toddlers

1–3 years

First words take off

View milestones

Preschoolers

3–5 years

Being understood by others

View milestones

School age

5–13 years

Skills that carry into class

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